Saturday, September 29, 2012

My Honey

Richard William Weisbecker









August 29, 1954 - September 25, 2012

My soulmate, my friend, my lover, the one that GETS me, and the marriage we decided would have no rules. I will love you forever dear Rich and I know you will be with me forever. Sometime I will write more, I just want to tell the world that I love Rich and I always will. We never knew a life without Cancer, from before we were married we knew it was there. But we never lived like we had anything but health in our lives. For that I am grateful. I lost a husband but i gained a very lovely new family. It will never be the same without Rich but I am so very thankful I had the time with him that I did.


30 comments:

StevenCX said...

I'm sorry to hear this Julia. :(

Damie said...

Thinking about you soooooooo much today. xo

Steve said...

No words to say Julia. I never want to be in your position.

No words to say.

xoxo

It is all I got, and you are special.

I wish I could give you a ton, but you are like some other special people I know. Too strong. You are able to handle all that comes your way.

Sooo hard for you.

No one plans that kind of blog update.

Jennifer said...

I am so sorry, Julia. I've been thinking about you today. I hope it was beautiful and you found some peace. Please take care of yourself and let yourself grieve in any way that you need to. You are strong but you don't always have to be. Let the people who love you help when you need it. You and Rich had a beautiful life together and I am so happy for you that you got that chance!

Anonymous said...

You inspire me. Your grace, your strength, your bravery.

Rich inspires me through the very same qualities. No matter where he is.

Both of you are in all of our hearts and all of our prayers.

So much love to you. And Rich.

LittleRachet said...

Oh, hon. I'm so sorry. :( My heart goes out to you. I wish I had some amazingly poetic thing to say, but I don't. Please know that my thoughts are with you.

Molly said...

I'm so so sorry Julia :( I'm glad you have KO and M out there with you right now. Hugs.

cheryl said...

Julia - you are right, he will always be with you. He is where you will find strength and peace. xo

Anonymous said...

A blog lurker, but my prayers are with you and your family. Your relationship seemed like a very special one.

Ana-Maria RunTriLive said...

So sorry Julia!

Susan said...

What a beautiful post, Julia. Wonderful pictures of a wonderful man. I am so happy you found each other. He will always be there with you.

Velma said...

I am so sorry.

Teresa said...

Your loved. Your passion and the love you two shared is special and touches all of us. Thinking of you, Rich, your family and counting blessings.

xoxo

tn

marian said...

i am so so sorry to read this.
rich will always be with you. sending you love and strength.
peace.

sallyaston said...

I am so sorry for this. Hugs and thoughts are with you!

runningyankee said...

Thinking of you and the stories you souls tell of riding up madira with rich and going for coffee and riding I to another state and all of the other great things you did. Take comfort in the fact that you two lived your lives to the fullest and took advantage of every second. Love you!

Kim said...

Julia, much love from Boston. My prayers are with you.

Anonymous said...

You've been such an inspiration, Julia! I'm thinking about you each day. XOXO

LizH said...

I am so so sorry Julia. I have such great memories of riding in AZ with u both. Your closeness and love were so evident in the few hours I spent with you two. Thinking of you.

Jennifer Harrison said...

What a great guy Rich was....the services were some of the most special, loving I have ever been too. Speaks volumes of how many people really loved Rich.

Kortney said...

My thoughts are with you
He will always be with you he will be your strength and your inspiration.

Shevaun said...

So sorry about your lose. You and Rich's ability to live life and find joy throughout this is amazing.

mjcaron said...

So sorry Julia. I can see that you and Rich did not waste one second of the lovely life that you had together. I'm sending my love and thinking of you.

Betsy said...

My heart goes out to you, Julia. You are strong but know that you don't have to be every day. It doesn't make sense and it doesn't seem fair but I'm sure it's part of a bigger plan and you are exactly right to be thankful for what you did have not what you've lost. I think that you knew true love is one of the greatest gifts you could have. Hugs.

rr said...

Julia,

I'm so, so sorry for your loss. He was lucky to have you, and it certainly seems like you realize how lucky you were to have such a great love. I'm thinking of you, sending lots of love and prayers.

RR

Eclectchick said...

"People come and go in your life, but they never leave your dreams. Once they are in your subconscious, they are immortal." - Patricia Hampl

Still holding you and Rich in my thoughts, Julia. I think of you every day.

Eclectchick said...

"People come and go in your life, but they never leave your dreams. Once they are in your subconscious, they are immortal." - Patricia Hampl

Still holding you and Rich in my thoughts, Julia. I think of you every day.

Lindsay said...

thinking of you, jenny shared your news with me right away and I have thought of you often which makes has made me not stress the small trivial stuff, and just live life!
xoxox0

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All The Way Ray said...

Very sorry. Love Ray and Debbie.